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100 questions to ask your boyfriend

You might know his coffee order and his favourite film, but there is always another layer to discover. Below are 100 questions to ask your boyfriend, from silly and cute to deep and a little bit juicy. They work as relationship questions for a date night, a long drive or a slow evening on the sofa, and they are just as good as questions for couples who have been together for years.

How to use these relationship questions

Pick a category that matches the mood. The fun questions are perfect when you are both a bit tired and want to laugh, the deep questions belong to a quiet evening, and the cute questions are made for anniversaries and lazy Sundays.

Answer every question yourself as well. A conversation feels like a date when both of you share, and it feels like an interview when only one person talks. Listen, ask a follow-up question and do not tease him for an honest answer.

Fun questions to ask your boyfriend

Light questions for date night, road trips and those moments when you both stare at your phones.

  1. What is the most random skill you picked up as a kid?
  2. If you had to live inside a video game for a week, which one would you pick?
  3. What is your most controversial pizza topping opinion?
  4. Which cartoon character were you obsessed with growing up?
  5. If you opened a restaurant, what would be on the menu?
  6. What is the best concert or live show you have ever been to?
  7. Which sport would you play professionally if you had the talent?
  8. What is your go-to snack at the cinema?
  9. If you could instantly master any instrument, which would you choose?
  10. What is the weirdest dream you can remember?
  11. Which superpower would you actually use every day?
  12. What is your guilty-pleasure TV show?
  13. If your life had a narrator, whose voice would it be?
  14. What is a strange job you would secretly enjoy?
  15. Which board game brings out your competitive side?

Deep questions to ask your boyfriend

For late-night talks when you want to understand what really goes on in his head.

  1. What is something you are working on in yourself right now?
  2. Who has shaped the person you are the most?
  3. What do you find hardest to talk about?
  4. When do you feel most like yourself?
  5. What is a mistake that taught you something important?
  6. What does success mean to you?
  7. How do you like to be comforted when you are sad?
  8. What is a fear you have never admitted to anyone?
  9. Which compliment has stayed with you for years?
  10. What part of your childhood do you miss the most?
  11. What would you do differently if nobody could judge you?
  12. When was the last time you cried, and why?
  13. What makes you feel truly respected?
  14. Which value would you never compromise on?
  15. What do you hope people say about you when you are not in the room?

Cute questions to ask your boyfriend

Sweet questions that usually end with a smile, and sometimes with a blush.

  1. When did you first realise you liked me?
  2. What was going through your head on our first date?
  3. What is your favourite thing I do without noticing?
  4. Which song makes you think of me?
  5. What is your favourite photo of us?
  6. If you had to give me a brand-new nickname, what would it be?
  7. What is the sweetest thing I have ever done for you?
  8. What did you tell your friends about me at the start?
  9. Which of my laughs is your favourite?
  10. What small moment with me made your week?
  11. If you could relive one day with me, which would it be?
  12. What is your favourite way to spend a lazy Sunday together?

Would you rather questions for couples

Quick choices that say more about your relationship than you would expect.

  1. Would you rather go on a road trip or a city break with me?
  2. Would you rather cook dinner together or order takeaway and watch a film?
  3. Would you rather have a picnic in the park or a fancy dinner out?
  4. Would you rather share every dessert or each get our own?
  5. Would you rather plan every date or be surprised every time?
  6. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing karaoke together in public?
  7. Would you rather live by the sea or in the mountains with me?
  8. Would you rather wear matching outfits for a day or swap phones for a day?
  9. Would you rather adopt a dog or a cat together?
  10. Would you rather spend a rainy day building a blanket fort or binge-watching a series?
  11. Would you rather know all my thoughts for a day or have me know all of yours?
  12. Would you rather relive our first date or skip ahead to our next holiday?

Questions about the future

Dream a little together. These questions are about plans, hopes and adventures still to come.

  1. Where would you love us to travel together first?
  2. What does your dream home look like?
  3. Which city could you see us living in one day?
  4. How do you picture a perfect weekend ten years from now?
  5. What is one adventure you want us to have in the next five years?
  6. Which goal of yours could I help you with?
  7. What tradition would you like us to start?
  8. Where do you see your career in five years?
  9. What would you want our yearly holiday to look like?
  10. What is something you want us to learn together?
  11. How do you want to celebrate our next anniversary?
  12. What kind of old couple do you think we will be?

Questions to get to know your boyfriend better

Even after months or years, these questions often bring up stories you have never heard.

  1. What was your favourite subject at school?
  2. Who was your hero when you were little?
  3. What is a family tradition you love?
  4. What is the best advice a parent or grandparent ever gave you?
  5. Which smell takes you straight back to your childhood?
  6. What is your comfort food after a long day?
  7. Which of your friends knows you best?
  8. What is on your bucket list that you have never told me about?
  9. What is your favourite way to unwind?
  10. Which film do you quote the most?
  11. What did you want to be when you grew up?
  12. What is your favourite memory with your family?
  13. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
  14. What is something you are secretly proud of?

Questions about your relationship

Relationship questions about the two of you, for when you want to check in and grow closer.

  1. What do you think our biggest strength as a couple is?
  2. What is something we should do more often?
  3. How do you like me to show that I love you?
  4. What is the funniest argument we have ever had?
  5. Which inside joke of ours is your favourite?
  6. What is one thing I do that makes you feel safe?
  7. Is there something you wish I asked you about more often?
  8. What did we learn from our first disagreement?
  9. How have we changed since we met?
  10. What makes our relationship different from others you know?

Juicy questions to ask your boyfriend

A little cheeky, still completely clean. Perfect when you want to make him laugh and blush.

  1. Who was your first crush?
  2. What did you notice first about me?
  3. Have you ever been jealous when I talked to someone else?
  4. What is the most romantic thing you have wanted to do but never did?
  5. Did you scroll through my social media before we got together?
  6. What is something about me you were nervous to admit you liked?
  7. Have you ever practised what to say to me in front of the mirror?
  8. What was the biggest secret you kept from me at the start?
  9. What is the cheesiest pick-up line you have actually used?
  10. On a scale from one to ten, how nervous were you before our first kiss?

Does your boyfriend really know you?

Put his answers to the test. Make a Couple Test with 10 questions about yourself, send him the link and see if he scores like a soulmate or a stranger. It takes a minute and it is free.

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Turn the questions into a couple game

Questions for couples get even better with a little competition. Try one of these:

  1. Guess his answer. Before he answers, write down what you think he will say. One point for every match, and then swap roles.
  2. Three-question date. Pick one fun, one deep and one cute question for every date night, so the list lasts for weeks.
  3. Make it official. Create a Couple Test, send him the link and see his score on your scoreboard. Friends can play too, so you find out who knows you best.

Questions about questions to ask your boyfriend

What are good questions to ask your boyfriend?

The best questions are open questions that start a story, such as “What was going through your head on our first date?” or “Who has shaped the person you are the most?”. Mix fun and deep questions so the conversation stays easy but still means something.

What are good relationship questions for couples?

Good relationship questions are about how you work together: “What is something we should do more often?”, “How do you like me to show that I love you?” or “How have we changed since we met?”. Ask them at a calm moment and answer them yourself too.

What are cute questions to ask your boyfriend over text?

Short, sweet questions work best over text, for example “Which song makes you think of me?” or “What is your favourite photo of us?”. Save the deep questions for when you are together, because a voice and a face make them easier to answer.

How can I test how well my boyfriend knows me?

Ask him questions about yourself, like your comfort food, your dream trip or your biggest fear. The Couple Test makes a game of it: you answer 10 questions about yourself, send him the link and he gets a score out of 10.

How many questions should we ask in one go?

Ten to fifteen questions are plenty for one evening. Stop when a question leads to a good conversation, because that is the whole point. Keep the rest for your next date night.

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