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100 questions to ask your girlfriend

The best conversations with your girlfriend rarely happen by accident. They start with one good question. Below are 100 questions to ask your girlfriend, from playful and cute to deep and a little bit daring. Use them on a date, during a video call or on a walk home, and find out things about her that you never thought to ask.

How to ask your girlfriend questions

Choose the questions that fit the moment. Fun questions keep a long car ride light, cute questions are lovely on an anniversary, and deep questions need a quiet evening without distractions.

Be curious, not nosy. Ask one question, really listen, and follow up with “why?” or “tell me more”. If she would rather skip a question, skip it. And always be ready to answer the same question yourself.

Fun questions to ask your girlfriend

Playful questions that get you both laughing within minutes.

  1. What is the funniest thing that happened to you at school?
  2. If you could be any animal for a day, which would you be?
  3. What is the best meal you have ever eaten?
  4. Which celebrity would you love to have dinner with?
  5. What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?
  6. If you had your own talk show, who would be your first guest?
  7. What is a hidden talent of yours that nobody expects?
  8. Which decade has the best music?
  9. If you could rename yourself, what name would you choose?
  10. What would your perfect sandwich look like?
  11. Which reality show do you think you would win?
  12. What is your favourite holiday of the year, and why?
  13. What is the silliest rule you had growing up?
  14. If you could teleport anywhere right now, where would you go?
  15. Which emoji sums up your personality?

Deep questions to ask your girlfriend

Meaningful questions for when you want to understand her heart, not just her habits.

  1. What makes you feel loved the most?
  2. What is the hardest thing you have ever been through?
  3. What is something you are still figuring out about yourself?
  4. Who do you turn to when life gets hard?
  5. What does a good relationship look like to you?
  6. When do you feel the most confident?
  7. What is a memory that still makes you emotional?
  8. What do you wish you had more time for?
  9. What is something you have changed your mind about recently?
  10. Which part of your personality are you most proud of?
  11. What worries you most about the future?
  12. What do you need more of in your life right now?
  13. How do you know when you can trust someone?
  14. Which person do you miss the most?
  15. What would make you feel truly at peace?

Cute questions to ask your girlfriend

Romantic little questions that remind her why you two work so well.

  1. What did you think of me the first time we met?
  2. Which moment made you sure about us?
  3. What do I do that always makes you smile?
  4. Which outfit of mine do you like best?
  5. Which date of ours was your favourite?
  6. What is the cutest message I have ever sent you?
  7. What do you love most about my personality?
  8. If we had a couple name, what would it be?
  9. What do you miss most about me when we are apart?
  10. Which song would you put first on a playlist about us?
  11. What is your favourite way for me to say good morning?
  12. When do you feel closest to me?

Would you rather questions for your girlfriend

Two options, one answer, and usually a long debate afterwards.

  1. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or a sunset walk with me?
  2. Would you rather go stargazing or to a theme park together?
  3. Would you rather receive a handwritten letter or a surprise trip?
  4. Would you rather go on a double date or a date just for the two of us?
  5. Would you rather spend a weekend in a cosy cabin or a big city hotel?
  6. Would you rather take a cooking class or a dance class together?
  7. Would you rather I write you a poem or a song?
  8. Would you rather have a movie marathon or a game night?
  9. Would you rather travel the world with me in a camper van or on a cruise ship?
  10. Would you rather swap jobs with me for a day or swap wardrobes for a day?
  11. Would you rather fall asleep on a video call or text until midnight?
  12. Would you rather celebrate our anniversary at home or somewhere completely new?

Questions about your future together

Big dreams, small plans and everything in between.

  1. Which country is at the top of your travel list?
  2. Where would you like to live in ten years?
  3. What does your ideal Saturday morning look like a few years from now?
  4. What are you most excited about this year?
  5. What would your dream job be if money did not matter?
  6. What kind of home would you like us to share one day?
  7. Which skill do you want to master in the next few years?
  8. How do you want to spend your birthdays from now on?
  9. What is something you want us to try for the first time together?
  10. Do you see yourself living in the city or the countryside?
  11. What holiday tradition would be perfect for us?
  12. How do you think we will have grown in five years?

Questions to get to know your girlfriend better

Questions about her story, her habits and the little details that make her who she is.

  1. What is your earliest memory?
  2. Which book or film changed the way you see the world?
  3. What was your favourite toy as a child?
  4. Who is the funniest person in your family?
  5. What is your love language?
  6. Which little habit in other people drives you mad?
  7. What does your perfect comfort day look like?
  8. Which teacher do you still remember, and why?
  9. What is a skill you wish you had learned earlier?
  10. What is your coffee or tea order?
  11. What does your ideal birthday look like?
  12. Which song would you choose as your walk-on music?
  13. What did you love doing when you were ten?
  14. Who do you call first when you have big news?

Questions about the two of you

Honest check-in questions that help you grow as a couple.

  1. What is your favourite thing about us as a couple?
  2. What do you think we are really good at together?
  3. Which habit of mine would you miss if I stopped?
  4. What is one thing you would like us to work on?
  5. How do we balance each other out?
  6. What is the best adventure we have had so far?
  7. When did you feel most supported by me?
  8. What do you think people notice about us when we are together?
  9. Which date should we repeat soon?
  10. What does feeling at home with me mean to you?

Juicy questions to ask your girlfriend

Slightly daring, totally clean, guaranteed to make her grin.

  1. Who made the first move, in your opinion?
  2. What was your first impression of my friends?
  3. Have you ever had a dream about me?
  4. Did you look me up online before our first date?
  5. When were you the most nervous around me?
  6. What is something about me you found intimidating at first?
  7. Did you save a photo of me before we were together?
  8. When did you first want to kiss me?
  9. Which of your friends was the first to hear about me?
  10. What is one thing you have never dared to ask me?

How well does your girlfriend know you?

Make it a game. Create a Couple Test with 10 questions about yourself, send her the link and see if she scores soulmate or stranger. It takes a minute and it is free.

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Make a date night out of it

These questions are even more fun with a few simple rules:

  1. Question jar. Write your favourite questions on small pieces of paper, put them in a jar and take turns pulling one out.
  2. Both answer. Whoever asks the question answers it too. You learn twice as much and it never feels like an interview.
  3. Keep score. Make a Couple Test, send her your link and see how many of the 10 answers she gets right. Then let her make one for you.

Questions about questions to ask your girlfriend

What are good questions to ask your girlfriend?

Good questions invite a story instead of a yes or no, for example “What did you think of me the first time we met?” or “What makes you feel loved the most?”. A mix of fun, cute and deep questions keeps the conversation light and personal at the same time.

What are deep questions to ask your girlfriend?

Deep questions are about feelings, values and experiences, such as “What is a memory that still makes you emotional?” or “How do you know when you can trust someone?”. Ask them when you both have time, and share your own answers too.

What are cute questions to ask your girlfriend?

Cute questions are about the two of you, like “Which date of ours was your favourite?”, “If we had a couple name, what would it be?” or “When do you feel closest to me?”. They work well on anniversaries and over text.

How do I find out how well my girlfriend knows me?

Ask her questions about yourself, such as your comfort film, your dream trip or your biggest pet peeve. The Couple Test turns this into a game: you answer 10 questions about yourself, send her the link and she gets a score out of 10.

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