100 questions to ask your crush

Talking to your crush is exciting and a little terrifying. The trick is to have a few good questions ready, so the conversation flows and you get to see who they really are. Below are 100 questions to ask your crush, with easy conversation starters, flirty-but-clean questions, funny ones, questions to ask a guy, questions to ask a girl, questions for texting and a few that help you find out if the feeling is mutual.

How to ask your crush questions without it feeling awkward

Start light. Ask something easy, like their weekend plans or the series they are watching, and save the flirty and deep questions for when you are both relaxed. A conversation that grows step by step feels natural instead of like a quiz.

Listen more than you talk, and react to what they say. A follow-up such as “wait, tell me more about that” is often more charming than any clever line. If they ask you something back, that is already a good sign.

Conversation starters to ask your crush

Easy, friendly questions to break the ice in class, at work or at a party.

What has been the best part of your week so far?
What are you watching at the moment?
Do you have any plans for the weekend?
What is your favourite place to eat around here?
What kind of music have you been listening to lately?
What is the best trip you have ever taken?
Are you more of a cat person or a dog person?
What do you usually do on a free afternoon?
What is your favourite season, and why?
What is a hobby you would love to pick up?
Which class or subject do you actually enjoy?
What is the last thing that made you laugh out loud?
Do you have any brothers or sisters?
What is your favourite way to spend a summer evening?

Flirty questions to ask your crush

A little flirty, never too much. Good for when you are already chatting comfortably.

What is your idea of a perfect first date?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
What is the first thing you notice about someone?
Do you have a type, and what is it?
Have you ever had a crush on someone you never told?
Which song would you dedicate to someone you like?
Are you a hand-holder or not really?
What is the most romantic film you have ever seen?
Would you rather get flowers or a handwritten note?
What small thing instantly makes someone more attractive to you?
Do you think I would be a good dance partner?
If we went on an adventure together, where would we go?

Funny questions to ask your crush

Make them laugh and you are halfway there.

What is the worst pick-up line you have ever heard?
If you were a vegetable, which one would you be?
What is your most embarrassing autocorrect fail?
Which animal would make the most annoying roommate?
What is the weirdest thing you believed as a kid?
If you were stuck in a lift with one celebrity, who would you want it to be?
What is the strangest thing in your fridge right now?
Which fictional villain do you secretly root for?
What would your wrestler name be?
What is the most useless fact you know?
If your pet could talk, what would it complain about?
What is the funniest thing you have ever seen happen in public?

Questions to ask a guy

Questions to ask a guy you like, about his passions, his friends and what makes him tick.

What is something you are really passionate about?
Which sports team do you support, if any?
What is the best advice your best friend has ever given you?
Are you more into gaming, reading or being outdoors?
What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
Which film could you watch on repeat?
What is your signature dish when you cook?
Who do you look up to?
What is a skill you are proud of?
Do you like surprises, or do you prefer to know what is coming?
What does your ideal weekend look like?
What is your favourite memory with your friends?
Which song always gets you hyped?
What is something most people get wrong about you?

Questions to ask a girl

Questions to ask a girl you like, about the things she loves and the person she wants to be.

What is your favourite way to treat yourself?
Which book or series are you obsessed with right now?
Where do you go when you want to feel calm?
Who is your biggest role model?
What is your all-time favourite dessert?
What is something that always cheers you up?
Which friend of yours would you trust with anything?
What is a dream you have been thinking about lately?
Are you more spontaneous or more of a planner?
What is your favourite outfit to wear?
What does your perfect lazy day look like?
Which talent do you wish you had?
What is the nicest compliment you have ever received?
Which city in the world would you most like to explore?

Questions to ask your crush over text

Short questions that are easy to answer and keep the chat going.

What are you up to right now?
What is the last photo you took?
If you had to describe your day in three emojis, which would you choose?
Which song are you playing on repeat this week?
Which meme sums up your mood today?
Are you a voice-note person or a typing person?
What is one thing that made you smile today?
Coffee, tea or hot chocolate right now?
Which app are you using the most at the moment?
What is keeping you up tonight?
If I could bring you any snack right now, what would it be?
What is one thing you are looking forward to tomorrow?

Deep questions to ask your crush

For when the small talk is done and you want a real connection.

What is something you are proud of that nobody knows about?
What makes you feel truly understood?
What is the biggest lesson you have learned so far?
Who has had the biggest influence on your life?
What do you value most in a friendship?
What is something you are afraid of losing?
What does happiness look like to you?
When do you feel most free?
What would you like to change about the world?
What is a moment you will never forget?

Questions to find out if your crush likes you

Gentle questions that tell you a lot without putting anyone on the spot. Watch how they answer, not just what they say.

Is there someone you are into at the moment?
What would your friends say if we hung out more?
Would you go to a concert with me sometime?
Do you think we would make a good team?
Be honest: what did you think when you first saw me?
Have you ever thought about asking me out?
Who do you text first when something funny happens?
Would you rather hang out in a group or just the two of us?
What do you like most about spending time with me?
Is there anyone you would cancel plans for?
If I asked you out for a coffee, what would you say?
Do you remember the first time we talked?

Does your crush like you back?

Look at how your crush acts around you. Answer 10 quick questions about the way they text, talk and pay attention to you, and get your result straight away. Free and just for fun.

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Signs your questions are working

The answers matter, but how your crush responds tells you even more. Look out for these signs:

They ask back. If your crush returns your questions and wants to know your answer too, they are interested in you, not just being polite.
They remember. When they bring up something you told them days ago, you clearly made an impression.
They keep the chat going. Long replies, quick answers and a new question at the end are good signs. Not sure yet? Take the Crush Test and see what the signs add up to.

Questions about questions to ask your crush

What are good questions to ask your crush?

Start with easy open questions, such as “What has been the best part of your week so far?” or “What are you watching at the moment?”. Once the conversation flows, move on to funny, flirty or deeper questions. The goal is a real conversation, not an interview.

What are good questions to ask a guy?

Ask about the things he cares about: his passions, his friends and his plans. Questions like “What is something you are really passionate about?” or “What is something most people get wrong about you?” get guys talking much more than a yes-or-no question.

What are good questions to ask a girl?

Show genuine interest in her world, with questions such as “Which book or series are you obsessed with right now?” or “What is a dream you have been thinking about lately?”. Listen closely and ask a follow-up question, because that shows you care about the answer.

What should I ask my crush over text?

Keep it short and easy to answer: “What is one thing that made you smile today?” or “Which song are you playing on repeat this week?”. Save deep questions for when you see each other, and do not send five questions in a row.

How do I know if my crush likes me back?

Pay attention to how they act: do they ask you questions back, remember what you said and start conversations themselves? The Crush Test helps you sort the signs: answer 10 quick questions about your crush and get your result straight away.

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