Would You Rather

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100 this or that questions to ask anyone

Coffee or tea? Beach or mountains? This or that questions are the fastest way to get to know someone: two words, one choice and an answer in seconds. Below are 100 this or that questions sorted by topic, from food and travel to friends, couples and a few deeper ones. When you are ready for bigger dilemmas, step up to the Would You Rather game.

How to play this or that

Read a pair out loud and answer straight away. The speed is the point: no explanations, no “it depends”, just your first instinct. Go round the group or fire questions at one person until they hesitate.

Want more? After a quick round, ask why. A simple “Cats or dogs?” often turns into a surprisingly long story.

Food this or that questions

The easiest place to start, and the most likely to cause an argument.

  1. Coffee or tea?
  2. Pizza or burgers?
  3. Sweet or salty?
  4. Pancakes or waffles?
  5. Chocolate or vanilla?
  6. Breakfast or dinner?
  7. Fries or onion rings?
  8. Spicy or mild?
  9. Ketchup or mayo?
  10. Cooking at home or eating out?
  11. Cake or pie?
  12. Sushi or tacos?
  13. Hot chocolate or milkshake?
  14. Popcorn or nachos?
  15. Pasta or rice?

Fun this or that questions

Light, quick picks that work as an icebreaker with anyone.

  1. Cats or dogs?
  2. Morning or night?
  3. Summer or winter?
  4. Text or call?
  5. Puzzles or quizzes?
  6. Sunrise or sunset?
  7. Stay in or go out?
  8. Board games or video games?
  9. Rain or snow?
  10. Sneakers or sandals?
  11. Hoodie or jacket?
  12. Bath or shower?
  13. Messy or tidy?

Travel this or that questions

Find out who you should (and should not) go on holiday with.

  1. Beach or mountains?
  2. City break or countryside?
  3. Plane or train?
  4. Window seat or aisle seat?
  5. Hotel or camping?
  6. Plan everything or go with the flow?
  7. Pack light or pack everything?
  8. Museums or theme parks?
  9. Sunbathing or sightseeing?
  10. Local food or familiar food?
  11. Souvenirs or photos?
  12. Travel solo or with a group?

Music and movie this or that questions

For film nights, car rides and arguments about the playlist.

  1. Read the book or watch the film?
  2. Comedy or horror?
  3. Cinema or couch?
  4. Headphones or speakers?
  5. Concert or festival?
  6. Pop or rock?
  7. Series or films?
  8. Subtitles or dubbing?
  9. Singing in the shower or dancing in the kitchen?
  10. Old songs or new songs?
  11. Spoilers or surprises?
  12. Rom-com or action?

This or that questions for friends

Quick questions for the group chat or a sleepover.

  1. Group chat or one-on-one?
  2. Sleepover or day out?
  3. Big birthday party or small dinner?
  4. Plan the trip or bring the snacks?
  5. Brutal honesty or white lies?
  6. Voice notes or texts?
  7. Matching outfits or matching bracelets?
  8. Karaoke or bowling?
  9. Inside jokes or new adventures?
  10. Give advice or get advice?
  11. Funny friend or wise friend?
  12. Surprise visit or planned hangout?

This or that questions for couples

Cute questions for a date, a long drive or a new relationship.

  1. Movie night or dinner date?
  2. Flowers or chocolates?
  3. Big wedding or small wedding?
  4. Breakfast in bed or a picnic in the park?
  5. Love letters or love songs?
  6. Holding hands or hugs?
  7. Big spoon or little spoon?
  8. First to text or first to say sorry?
  9. Plan the date or be surprised?
  10. Matching pyjamas or matching mugs?
  11. Sunrise walk or late-night drive?
  12. Cook together or order in?

Deep this or that questions

Still two options, but these ones take a little longer to answer.

  1. Heart or head?
  2. Past or future?
  3. Be right or be happy?
  4. Big city or small town?
  5. Save or spend?
  6. Fame or privacy?
  7. Adventure or stability?
  8. Logic or intuition?
  9. Leader or follower?
  10. Forgive or forget?
  11. Talk it out or sleep on it?
  12. Money or time?

Random this or that questions

Weird, wonderful and completely unnecessary. Perfect for ending a round.

  1. Aliens or ghosts?
  2. Dinosaurs or dragons?
  3. Invisibility or flying?
  4. Robots or wizards?
  5. Zombies or vampires?
  6. A superpower or a million dollars?
  7. Ocean or space?
  8. Unicorn or narwhal?
  9. Pirate or ninja?
  10. Tic-tac-toe or rock-paper-scissors?
  11. Lift or stairs?
  12. Cereal first or milk first?

Ready for harder choices? Play Would You Rather

This or that is the warm-up; Would You Rather is the main event. Play 84 impossible choices in three levels, from Classic to Hard choices and Gross & awkward, tap your answer and see what percentage of players chose the same. No app needed and it is free.

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Ways to play this or that

Two options are simple, but you can still make a game of it:

  1. Speed round. Fire ten questions at one person in under a minute. Any hesitation and they lose a point.
  2. Guess my answer. Before you answer, your friend guesses what you will pick. Count how many they get right.
  3. Level up. When the pairs get too easy, switch to Would You Rather and vote on bigger dilemmas together.

Questions about this or that questions

What are this or that questions?

This or that questions give you two short options, like “Coffee or tea?” or “Beach or mountains?”, and you pick one straight away. They are a quick way to break the ice and learn what someone likes.

What are good this or that questions for couples?

Try sweet and playful pairs such as “Flowers or chocolates?”, “Big spoon or little spoon?” or “Sunrise walk or late-night drive?”. The couples section above has 12 of them.

What is the difference between this or that and would you rather?

This or that uses short pairs and quick answers. Would you rather asks about bigger, often impossible situations, like “Would you rather have more time or more money?”, so it leads to longer debates.

How do you play this or that?

One person reads a pair and the other answers without thinking too long. Take turns, keep the pace high and ask “why?” whenever an answer surprises you.

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